Sexy Dandy Pt II
Seeing me as an absolutely whole person
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Please read Part I first for further backstory
In the amount of years of my doing dandyism, accomplishments and all, all highlighted here, I have long since realized its advantages and disadvantages, and I have come to terms
with both of these. I absolutely love my fashion art and celebrate it whenever, however, and wherever I can. I love
for other people to see my art and hopefully celebrate it along with me. Having said that, I do have a balanced and
objective view of exactly what to do with my black queer steampunk drag-inspired dandyism.
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Advantages: The amount of love and adoration that I get (yay!) from others about my art is humbling and fulfilling. And, let's be
honest, it's fun to dress up!
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Disadvantages: I am sexually attracted to other men. Adult men. Adult cis or trans men. I am gay. I have used apps like Scruff (which I
still use), Grindr, Gay.com, Match.com, and Grindr. You have no idea how many times I have had a guy be interested in getting to know me, ask me for naked pics
(which I don't do for a host of reasons that pertain only to myself), only for me to send them my Instagram and/or my website link, only for them to immediately drop contact or even block me, all for the exact same reason others adore: my
fashion art. Basically, getting a date or even a hookup while promoting my black queer steampunk drag-inspired dandyism is so rare that steak cooked Pittsburgh Rare
is practically burnt by comparison.
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I won't stop what I do anytime soon, if ever. I am only writing this because I genuinely want to express my complicated feelings which, as we all know, are valid.
I want others to know the complexities of being a black gay fem queer dandy with a sexual attraction to other men who, for the most part, find my art to be a total
turn-off. So what about the men who would find you hot because of, or in spite of, what you do? You tell me.
Enjoy what I have to offer; it's for you, but, first and foremost, it's for me!
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